Thursday, November 10, 2022

Author Advice with Hollie Smurthwaite #ParanormalRomance #Suspense


MOTIVATION

As a writer, you might be familiar with the concepts of Goal, Motivation, and Conflict, in regards to your characters (GMC). But what about goals and motivations for yourself? (You won’t have to seek out conflict—it will find you.)

Goal: You're committed to being a writer!

Awesome! Except, sometimes it's hard to get going. Sometimes it's hard to keep going. There are a plethora of books, websites, apps, and theories. Find one that works for you. 

From Stay Sexy and Don't Get Murdered by Georgia Hardstark:

“At our first of what would be many sessions, I was bemoaning the fact that I just couldn’t seem to get anything done, and I was using the tired excuse of not having any motivation: to go to the gym, to write, to get out of my pajamas somedays. 'I just keep waiting and hoping that the motivation to do all the things that I genuinely want to do, that I should do, will hit me so I can stop being depressed about being so lazy,' I told her. 
Her response was a slap in the face of obviousness that was so true it had never even crossed my mind. 'Motivation isn’t necessary,' she said. 'You just have to do it.' 
Yes! That makes so much sense. I can drag my ass to a spin class and hate every moment of it, but I still did it. And writing this chapter, even though I just downloaded the audio book of Michelle McNamara’s I’ll Be Gone In The Dark, and all I want to do is listen to it while I paint my nails, but deadlines are a thing, so I’m writing down the top 10 biggest therapy epiphanies of my life like a boss instead. 
I’m not motivated, but these words. They just keep showing up on my screen. Point being you don’t have to bound in every situation ready to kick ass, you just have to show up and once you’re there, you might as well do your best. But fuck it all if you think I’m not taking a nap afterward."

She's not wrong. There's something to be said for unflinching discipline. 

Make it a habit

Everything is easier when it comes second nature. You can make writing second nature, if you make it a consistent habit. 

From The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg:

Forming a habit requires the following:

Cue
Routine
Reward

"If you want to start running each morning, it's essential that you choose a simple cue (like always lacing up your sneakers before breakfast or leaving your running clothes next to your bed) and a clear reward (such as a midday treat, a sense of accomplishment from recording your miles, or the endorphin rush you get from a jog). But countless studies have shown that a cue and a reward, on their own, aren't enough for a new habit to last. Only when your brain starts expecting the reward—craving the endorphins or sense of accomplishment-will it become automatic to lace up your jogging shoes each morning. The cue, in addition to triggering a routine, must also trigger a craving for the reward to come."

Along the same lines, writing motivation guru Sara Connell (http://saraconnell.com/) recommends withholding a reward and tying it to action and not results. Reward yourself for words written, number of stories submitted, time spent working on your craft. Your rewards don't have to be monetary (though they can be), give yourself an hour of reading time, a bubble bath, guilt-free time on Facebook, or a walk in a nature preserve. But you can't have it until you do the work!

Another Sara Connell suggestion is to give yourself positive feedback. She calls it a "future pull." Go ahead and send yourself an acceptance letter from that agent you pitched or the magazine you sent your short story. I've done it, and it is a bit weird, but it's also kind of fun to see a nice "we love you" email (even if it is, technically, from yourself). 

Accountability:

There are many ways to incorporate other people into your goals or to push yourself using a website or program. 

Start an accountability group. I recommend weekly goals. "Meet" once a week—in person, through Facetime or Zoom or however you can work it. Keep each other on the right path. 
Here are a few websites that help you stick to your goals:

Stikk

This is AWESOME. This site is free and has several layers of goal accountability you can use. Really want to motivate yourself? Put your money on it. You can arrange it so that if you don't meet your goals, you lose money. AND, you can decide who gets it: you can pool it in a group and those members that succeed split the money, you can have money donated to a cause you support, or, most diabolically, you can have a cause you hate get your money. Motivating, right? Goals are completely customizable. You can have an outside source need to verify you've completed your goal or you can trust yourself. 

Pacemaker

This is specifically designed for writers and is also free. Great goal setting, and has a cool feature where you can make the goal for the day chosen at random. How fun!

4 The Words

I use this daily. I write pretty much everything in 4 The Words first. This is not a free site (except you can try for free for a month), but it is worth every penny for people like me who are motivated by this kind of stuff. I joined in December of 2016 and have since written over 2,900,000 words! That's a lot of words. They have found a way to gamify writing. You fight word monsters and win coins or items. There are quests, wardrobe items, a community, and it has been instrumental in my forming a daily writing practice. If you use the code: ChicagoWriters, you can get an additional 14 days added to the free 30 they give you. 

When you Stumble:

Expect to fall down every once in a while. Life sometimes gets in the way, and we can fall out of practice. What's important, is that we don't let a small lapse turn into a large gap. As soon as you realize you've gotten out of the habit or fallen behind, don't berate yourself, but pick up the habit again and don't look back. There can be a temptation to say, "Well, I already messed it up, might as well..." This article is about exercise, but it applies to writing as well:

Double Down:

Lastly, I want to leave you with a concept I learned, again, from Sara Connell. When you feel like giving up or taking a break, give yourself a push instead. This is especially potent when you're feeling overwhelmed or have a deadline. Instead of laying off or easing up, she recommends doing what she calls a "Power 20." Don't give yourself a break, but do the opposite and push yourself twice as hard. Double your goal for the day (or the week). The idea is to power through the pain, because once you get past that resistance, you might find yourself unfettered. I've tried it, and it works. Go ahead and try it. If it doesn't work for you, what have you lost?

If what I've found for you isn't working, Google "Motivation" and maybe find something else that does. Better yet, reach out to the writing community, where you'll find a plethora of people who understand what you're experiencing. Some of writing you can only do alone, but motivation is something we can share with one another. If you find something that works for you, please share it too. Helping others is often its own motivation. 



The Color of Betrayal
The Psychic Colors Series
Book Two
Hollie Smurthwaite

Genre: Paranormal Romance, Suspense
Publisher: Hollie Smurthwaite
Date of Publication: 10-31-2022
ISBN: 978-1-7371189-6-1
ASIN: B0BD2NYV8W
Number of pages: 344
Word Count: 98,000
Cover Artist: Sarah Hansen at Okay Creations

Tagline: No Secret is Safe . . . 

Book Description:

As a memory surgeon, Jolene can slip into other people’s memories. She can see them, experience them, even steal them. To atone for her past, she’s been using her gift to help the Agency, a secret government entity, taking out drug lords across the US. After a screw-up on an assignment, she’s back in Chicago, where her own worst memories live.

The last thing she needs while trying to make up for her mistake is a sexy distraction.  Cass is a little sweet and a lot gorgeous.  The only problem: she can’t have him and the job.  But when he offers his friendship, she can’t resist. 

While Jolene and Cass try to pretend there is nothing beneath their friendship, her mission spins out of control. Now, both their lives are on the line. Will her growing powers be enough to save her? Or will secrets send her right back to the darkest depths of her past?

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Excerpt:

After only three weeks of dating, Jolene and Colton had fallen into a routine: dinner (both) and drinks (him), binge-watching various flavors of CSI at his downtown Boston condo (him), and a few hours of surreptitiously delving into Colton's memories (her). Jolene's practice run as a spy in the field was going well.

The late August night was cool enough for Colton to crack open the sliding glass door to the balcony to let the night air clear his lingering cigarette smoke. Jolene kicked off the stiletto heels and inwardly sighed. After some complex maneuvering, she managed to tuck her aching toes under her too-bright skirt.

The next part of the evening promised to be worth the discomfort of a thong up her ass crack to avoid panty lines.

Without asking Jolene what she would like, Colton switched on the obscenely large TV and pulled up Hulu, lounging like a czar on his pristine white couch, which was a stupid color for anyone but particularly ludicrous for a smoker who drank too much and worked with dangerous people.

In another life, he would have been regal with golden hair, long limbs, straight nose, and a boyish, charming smile. But this wasn’t another life.

As a midlevel lackey in the Red Flames criminal organization, he was not proper boyfriend material, even if he made enough cash to buy a downtown place on a high floor and have it professionally, if foolishly, decorated all in white.

Jolene wiggled her toes into the plush cushion and ignored the stale-smoke smell mixed with Colton’s spicy cologne. Any moment, Colton would slip into a CSI coma, and she would slip into his memories.

“This looks like a good one,” she said. What she always said, because why mess with what worked?

“Yeah,” Colton agreed, as he always did. He lit a cigarette and “politely” blew the smoke toward the balcony doors, tapping the ash into an antique crystal ashtray on the glass coffee table already holding three butts.

The first week, she'd been terrified he'd somehow feel her inside his mind, though she'd never had that happen before or heard of anyone sensing the process. Not that Jolene still had contacts in the memory-surgeon community, small as it was, but that sort of revelation would put memory surgery back in the 24/7 news cycle, like when they’d first been legitimized. Semi-legitimized.

This first assignment was nothing more than an exploration of what she could do on a real mission. Since Colton was a gangster and she had no close backup, fear nibbled, but confidence had outpaced her worry.

Jolene rested her head on his shoulder, slipped her arm through his, and slid her hand down his button-down shirt to rest on his hand. As soon as skin-to-skin contact was made, she mentally reached out to him. Colton's mind rose up inside her own. To boost her concentration, Jolene closed her eyes.

Within the blackness, bubbles sharpened. The different shapes and colors bobbed and slid around one another. In her mind's eye, she moved into the middle, staring at them as if in an aquarium. The memories never touched her, but she could reach out and sink into any of them. If she did, she experienced the memory in its entirety, exactly as Colton had lived through the event at the time. If she wanted, she could remove memories, but that was a level of violation she resisted unless absolutely necessary. Besides, if she took something, she had to keep it, and she didn't want to keep anything of Colton's.

Jolene already had an entire dossier in her head of all things Colton. She’d cataloged his fears: multilegged insects like millipedes terrified him, as did his brother when his eyes went icy, and his jaw shifted to the right.

Shame occupied its own section: bed-wetting for a month when he was twelve. The time he'd slapped his girlfriend after she'd gotten pregnant and decided she didn't want it. Red Flames passing him over for job after job.

Still, inside, people were infinite, and she had more to learn. She avoided the pink bubbles, as they were filled with his worst memories, and her reactions to living them were difficult to hide. Reds gave her the best intel so far. Angers, suspicions, smackdowns.

Truthfully, she should have wrapped up the mission a week ago since she wasn’t finding anything new. But playing spy and the unfettered access to Colton's recollections had been too enlightening to quit quite yet. Her skills had grown, and she didn’t feel guilty about messing in his brain because of his criminal history. She was three weeks into her two- to three-week mission, so she needed to skip out soon.

Jolene decided to make a game to test her memory-reading skills. She had recently learned how to peek and not immediately experience a memory. It allowed her to see more since she didn’t need any emotional recovery time, and she processed what she encountered more quickly.

Tonight, she wanted to test how many memories she could scan during commercial breaks, since Colton was too cheap to pay for the commercial-free version of Hulu. She’d hop through his memories like jumping into puddles.

Commercial.

A mahogany memory: his brother, Walther, stood over him, watching over his shoulder as Colton did algebra homework. Whenever Colton squirmed in his chair, Walther flicked his ear. It didn’t hurt much, but Colton’s face burned every time, and his muscles shook with the stress of not moving to avoid Walther’s attention. “Knock it off,” he grumbled, earning another sting. Colton tensed—

A buttercup-colored memory: “Mama, Mama, Mama,” Colton said, running around his mama as she walked in the park. If he ran fast enough, he would fly, his head already lightening. He stumbled and giggled, his mama laughing. Something shiny glinted in the sun. What was it? His mama scooped him into her arms before he grabbed it. She smelled of flowers and oranges.

About the Author: 

Hollie Smurthwaite is a paranormal romantic suspense author of The Color of Trauma and The Color of Betrayal. The Color of Trauma was the winner of the 2020 Soon to Be Famous Illinois Author Project in adult fiction. She lives in Chicago with her husband, son, and too few pets. In past lives, she's been a checkout clerk, massage therapist, office manager, recruiter, magazine staff writer, pepper spray hawker, and belly dancer.













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