Due to health reasons (Lupus, Fibromyalgia, etc) my libido is lagging.
I have zero interest in sex right which is very troublesome for me and my husband because we've always had a very active sex life. My libido was in overdrive for years. His still is. He's rock hard and ready to go several times a day.
Me. Nothing. Not even a little tingle right now.
There's just pain and exhaustion.
Hubby and I have had an open swinger and poly style relationship for years but we have always played together- well at least 99% of the time.
A couple times I sent him out to have some fun without me while I listened via phone or watched on Skype.
But even then I actively participated. It turned me on, I got off listening/watching. As a cuckquean I really enjoy watching him with other women.
Now I'm not even aroused thinking about it. I'm trying. Trying so very hard, but the illnesses are sucking the life right out of me.
The last several months have been filled with hospital stays, doctor appointments, etc. I'm just worn out.
But I don't want him to go without.
So I'm looking for a NSA playmate for him. Someone local-ish. We're in Flushing/Montrose area of Michigan. He travels around MI for work. Mostly to the Detroit and Lansing areas.
He's not a dom or sub, or really into fetish stuff - he's into sex- into pleasure.
He'll happily offer light impact play (spankings, gentle flogging, a paddle, etc) but he won't go hardcore. He's not into pain he's very much into pleasure.
So if there are any sexy ladies who would love to have an NSA sexual relationship with a safe and kind male playmate who loves to fuck, knows what he's doing and is packing a thick nine inches I have the guy for you.
My only requirement is that I get to see photos and video.
They are for my personal enjoyment only. I never share and they are never stored online or in the cloud. I keep all my stuff on an external hard drive. So there are never leaks, hacks, etc.
Age and race not important. BBW's welcome. Just be clean and disease free.